Saying fuck you to the patriarchy is not saying fuck you to masculine energy or men.
✨Do you let what you are focused on mentally feel SOO much more important than what you are being or feeling?✨ This has been my biggest challenge when it comes to connecting with feminine energy. If I just focused on that immediate thing in my head I would eventually “solve it or resolve it” and THAT is the thing that would make me feel better. But the irony of that belief is you can’t feel anything, let alone “feel better” long term, if you aren’t even in your body because you are too busy being in your head. Tomorrow’s email talks about connecting with your being-ness over your doing-ness. If you’re on my list check your box tomorrow, if not, check pvssyflowers.com Sunday afternoon.
Here is what I’m celebrating/gratituding from this week : having a financial win that felt like a huge relief 💕 being excited about finding a breeder for my future pug baby 💕 moving into a kick ass apartment that I’m in luurveee with 💕feeling loved on my birthday 💕 loving my body and my pussy 💕 feeling joy and high vibes from recommitting to some important self practices I had let fall by the wayside 💕 loving on the annual birthday bouquet from my dad 💕 feeling like the universe truly is looking out for me 💕 channeling my cancer side and setting up my new place 💕 cookies 💕 dancing and feeling juicy 💕 what about you? Don’t just run through your list mentally though. To get the most benefit and zing from doing this you’ve gotta take a moment and really feel each one. ⚡️
There is a lower and higher expression to femininity and masculinity. Ever heard of toxic masculinity? That is the lower vibrational expression of masculine energy that gets a lot of coverage lately. Toxic femininity is a thing, too (but I prefer to just call it the low vibe expression). We don’t talk about toxic feminine as much as we talk about toxic masculine, but the more you understand it the more power you have with the choices you make. Just posted this weeks email about what toxic femininity looks like to pvssyflowers.com. Link in bio 💋
Feminine energy is an inside job, it’s about body + mindset. It’s not about how you dress or what you look like to the outside world. Some of my favorite people who radiate feminine magnetism dress like tomboys. PS oh look someone made a neon sign of my booty. But really someone find this for me so I can hang it in my bathroom.
Body connection = self love 💕
My relationship with self love and self care is something i always have to stay on top of. It was never something that came naturally for me, and even after years of learning about it and working at it, it still doesn’t. Without some level of focused effort (not like Herculean effort or something, but effort nonetheless) my mental and emotional set point will return to a place that doesn’t feel good. My neutral is disconnection. And that disconnection quickly begets some shitty feeling thought patterns. My main players are “what i think/feel/say doesn’t matter”, “I’m not as important as __________”, and “stay invisible.” But I know my tools now. I know what works and the reconnection to me process gets smoother and faster over the years. If you are working on self love and it just doesn’t seem to stick the way you’d like, know that it’s normal and it’s a process that will continue to grow over time. For some people it may come easier. For some people it may be a life long relationship of constant maintenance. If you see someone struggling know that they may be one of those constant maintenance people and it may be a dance we are always learning about.
Some great things this week for me were having a bunch of successful photo shoots 💕 getting to see my adorable fusion baby niece 💕 hottubbin’ 💕 the feeling of relief when a lot of hard work is behind you 💕 having some really vivid dreams! 💕feeling anticipation and excitement about moving to my new apartment next weekend 💕 enjoying looking at pug websites and dreaming about my future pug baby 💕 feeling happy to spend time with my dad 💕 what were some of your highlights?
Feminine energy is creation energy. It’s sex energy. It’s free flowing joy energy. 💃🏻💋⚡️
Does you feel more directed in how you show up with others or like you are radiating who you are? Does it change with certain people? With strangers? With family? With lovers or partners? Art : @kaitlin.botts
“Women are becoming more recognized and respected in a world that was built by and for masculine energy, and that is something we as feminists want in all areas of our lives. And feminine energy is there willing us along this path and also encouraging us to embody our feminine energy within this masculine paradigm. . . It is so vital. Because then we can be recognized for our worth and value as feminine beings too, not just for being women who can be in their masculine energy in order to be perceived as being “as capable as any man.” When we can do this it will be what changes the masculine paradigm to a more balanced one where both masculine and feminine are finally valued...” - From this weeks email. The entire message is up on pvssyflowers.com. 💃🏻
Very in love with these watercolor crystals by @blousesandhouses Want many.