Be the chooser not the chaser

Each week we will meet for one group Zoom teaching call. We will explore a new topic every week over the course of 2-3 hours. All calls will be recorded for participants who cannot attend live.

After each call you will receive your pdf workbook for that week. The workbook will summarize all the important parts of our call, it will include homework or tips on how to implement what you've learned that week, and it will also include reading for you to tackle before next weeks call. I have so much to share with you and there is so much nuance to this work. Being prepped before each weeks call so I can streamline what we do cover when we are live is going to help you to learn as much as possible.

PDF WORKBOOKS : 
Section 1 : The current weeks most important points
Section 2 : Homework or tips to help you integrate the current weeks topic
Section 3 : Reading for you to finish before the next live class so you are fully prepped for our new topic.

BUT THE ZOOM CALLS AND WORKBOOKS AREN'T YOUR ONLY CHANCES TO LEARN

There are always so many questions that women have for me because dating and relationships are so layered. To help really flesh out the nuance of our topic each week you will also receive an audio recording (like a little casual no non sense podcast episode) of answers to questions I receive from you.

You will have 3 days to send  me your questions after our live call about that weeks topic.
"How might what we learned apply to this specific situation?"
"Can you help me understand how this works if this thing happens?"
"I've tried what you told us to do before but the man reacted like this, what don't I understand here?"

Friday of each week everyone will receive an audio recording of me answering the questions I receive from you all (the questioners will always remain anonymous) so everyone in the mastermind can benefit from hearing the answers to things they may have never  thought to ask.

BE THE CHOOSER NOT THE CHASER  mastermind is for women who want  to learn exactly what they need to know to start feeling powerful, authentic, and worthy while they are dating to find the man of their dreams.
I spent years feeling like something was wrong with me. Men never picked me. I chased them emotionally and energetically. I didn't even really know what that meant back then and I couldn't see the extent that I was doing it. The more I chased the more men ran.

My love life made me constantly feel like I must not be good enough somehow. What  was so wrong with me? Why couldn't I get this right?

Eventually one man did choose me. And because that rarely ever happened I jumped at the chance to be chosen. Finally. I was starving and hungry to finally feel special to any man so I didn't take any time to make sure he was a good man for me. I married him, but I never truly loved him.
I didn't want to admit it at the time but deep down I felt like this was maybe my only chance to stop being rejected and heartbroken in my relationships and by men. I wanted my relationship with this man to save me from the pain I was so use to experiencing and save me from my feelings of unworthiness.

Not surprisingly that relationship and marriage was an unhappy mess from start to finish.
And it ended, of course it did! And now with 8 years of emotional baggage, confusion, and disillusionment about love from my time with him I was thrown right back into the dating pool and right back into all the old ways I use to feel with men ; unseen and unwanted all over again.

But this time I was going to do it differently. My relationships had never really been happy, fulfilling, or successful and I was finally ready to be honest with myself about that. I accepted that I must not understand men and relationships as much as I had been telling myself that I did. I committed to learning about what I had done wrong. I committed to learning about what I couldn't see before. I was determined to change my love life. And over about 10 years  I slowly and painstakingly learned what I hadn't understood before.
I learned everything I needed to know to start having the kind of relationships I had always dreamed about and hoped for.
Relationships with men who treated me like a queen and like I was the most special person in the room. Men I felt incredibly attracted to. No more assholes and no more boring safe guys either. Good men. And if I can do it, so can you.
I want to teach you everything I learned over the past 10 years about dating, men, and how to become the chooser, not the chaser.  

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